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Worried about travelling with toddlers on a plane?

Don’t be – travelling with toddlers on long haul flights isn’t a walk in the park but it doesn’t have to be a horrendous experience, either. I’ve travelled extensively with my two young sons and flown with them many times, short and long-haul. Over the years, I have tried and tested several different products (read here on how to survive a flight with a baby) which can help parents survive a long haul flight with toddlers, and make the journey go a lot more smoothly.

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Gone are the days where we’d fuel up on gin, watch all the latest hit movies and then have forty winks. Flying on long haul flights with toddlers is a daunting prospect for many, many parents – but preparation is key to helping you all have a more pleasant journey.

Travelling with toddlers on long haul flights isn’t easy…

I can attest to that. But there are many things you can do that will ease the stress and a lot of it is to do with your mindset. Remember, if you imagine the worst-case scenario – anything better will mean you’ll be winning! And no matter how long the flight is, you are getting off the plane eventually and will never see the other passengers again… However, people are generally kind, helpful and very understanding. Sure there are some who aren’t so, but ignore, ignore, ignore! This so key to surviving a long flight with a toddler.

The Ultimate Survival Guide To Travelling with toddlers on a plane

To get organised and prepared for flying long haul with a toddler, here are some essential tips and products that can help facilitate a smooth flight. I really hope these help…

Order  a kid’s meal 

It’s only a small thing but I didn’t realise until a friend told me that airlines specifically cater to young kids. Plane food can be hit and miss at the best of times (I actually quite like them!) but for small people who are notoriously fussy, this can make all the difference when it comes to getting them to eat something. Monkey’s meal consisted of a fruit salad, breaded chicken, mash and peas, accompanied by yoghurt, cheddar slice, Ribena and a pack of chocolate buttons! Meanwhile, breakfast was a sausage and baked beans, Ella’s fruit pouch and grapes. He actually ate most of it without too much of a fight.

Pack lots of snacks

Still, on the subject of food, it’s a good idea to bring plenty of their favourite snacks at some point they will get bored and peckish. We have a Bento Yumbox which Monkey adores. I think it’s because it offers a different variety and it’s his special box. They’re also easy to pack, lightweight and durable, which is an added bonus when you already have to bring so much onboard.

Pack surprise gifts

Kids love presents, right? Head to your local toy store, or pound shop and pick up a handful of toys and gifts and keep them as a surprise in a goody bag. This really works wonders for toddlers on a long haul flight who are starting to get tetchy and itchy feet! Remember to save some for the return journey, and don’t wrap them up! I once did this and security made me take off all the paper!

Consider using Phenergan 

After reading about it a while ago, I decided to buy some because it can help a toddler sleep on a plane. You can’t actually purchase it over the counter but it’s available online. Phenergan is an antihistamine but works as a mild sedative for young children. Now, I know some parents will be against using drugs to sedate their children and I’m not advocating this under normal circumstances at home. But after weighing up the pros and cons – side-effects include breathing problems – I decided it was better to have it on the flight than not. I also tried it out at home first to make sure Monkey didn’t have a reaction to it.

I did give some to Monkey during the flight – approximately four hours in. While it made him more sleepy, it didn’t really knock him out for hours on end. But I do think it helped him calm down. Every child is different, but I do know that for some children it really, really works. Please note: This cannot be used for children under two.

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Try to book a night flight

If you can, go travelling with toddlers on a long haul flight during the night – a night flight is always the best option for long haul journeys. Changing your toddler into his pyjamas and doing a mini-bed time routine can really help them settle in for a sleep. In fact, trying to keep their routine as close to normal as possible, is the way to go. This is what we did with Monkey: we got his favourite cuddly bunny, his dummy and his jim-jams and because the cabin lights are turned off and you’re pretty much in darkness, it helped reinforce this.

Use a travel pillow for travelling with toddlers on long haul flights

There’s nothing worse when Monkey snoozes and his head rolls to the side – it looks like he’s a contortionist and I’m surprised he never complains of neck ache. There are so many different children’s neck pillows on sale now, but we opted for a Trunki neck pillow. It was good to support for Monkey while he dozed and watch his films. It’s not as bulky as some travel pillows – which I find quite uncomfortable. The Monkey Yondi worked a treat and fit his small frame well. It also bonds together at the ends from a magnetic clasp right under the chin. I didn’t think he would wear it, so I was surprised he kept it on. Perhaps it had something to do with it being a monkey, too? The Yondi is available in several different colours and characters and retails at £11.04 *

Sleep while they sleep

As much as I wanted to sit and watch the countless movies on offer, I knew I had to try to get some sleep. I am pretty useless at falling asleep on a plane – I can catch a half an hour or so – on and off – but I never feel particularly rested. While Monkey was sleeping, I closed my eyes and tried to rest, and then ended up watching a film anyway because I couldn’t get comfortable. I was pretty exhausted – so the moral of the story is, don’t do what I did, try to get some shut-eye…

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Bring plenty of activities to keep them occupied

This is a key component for travelling with toddlers on a plane. Monkey isn’t very crafty, but that doesn’t mean I didn’t pack our hand luggage to the rafters with activities for him to do. I made a game out of it and acted like they were presents. He absolutely loved the sticker mosaics. Both of us spent a while trying to complete them. I didn’t even need the colouring or sticker book because it was soon bedtime, which is a good thing because I’ll have some in store for our return leg of the journey!

Load up the iPad

I assumed that British Airways would have plenty of the latest blockbusters for him to watch – but alas, there wasn’t anything he hadn’t already seen. Luckily, our iPad always has some of Monkey’s favourite cartoons and games on, so once the novelty wore off of watching the seat screen, he asked for the iPad. I’d also suggest bringing your own headphones, as you can’t be sure the plane’s set will fit small heads. We love from Amazon.

Pack some extra clothes

During the flight, it can get pretty chilly – best bring some extra layers of clothing just in case the blanket isn’t warm enough.

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Use a pull-up…

…If you’re potting training. We still use them for night times and didn’t hesitate to put Monkey in one when he wanted to go to sleep. However, if you’re in the early stages of potty training, don’t worry about deviating from your plan. It will be more stressful for you and your little one if you have to cope with accidents during the flight. It’s only for a few hours after all.

Get Comfy With A Travel Snug

Although Monkey is quite slight, he still managed to carry his Travel Snug onto the plane and around the airport with the easily manageable straps. When we first got the Travel Snug, I wasn’t sure exactly how a fleecy cushion seat with a blanket would make any difference to the journey, however, I was wrong. The Travel Snug is a must for travelling with toddlers on long haul flights. Monkey really adored it during the flight. He was super snugly and cocooned and it’s soft material helped in some way to keep him asleep for more than eight hours on our night flight home. The baby even enjoyed sitting on it, too. The Travel Snug is available for children from 15 months to six years, in many different designs, and is priced from £54.99.*

Lay Down With A Fly Tot

Now how does an inflatable cushion help travelling with toddlers on long haul flights? Well, that’s the genius thing about the Fly Tot, which was designed by two mums who were searching for a way to make plane journeys more relaxing. Once the Fly Tot cushion is inflated it provides a way for a child to lay flat, as it takes up space in between the seat and the back of the chair in front. It’s also compact and easy to inflate. We carried it in a rucksack, and once airborne, it took about five minutes to inflate with the foot pump. No one batted an eyelid at the squeaky noises, although we did have to get it out again during the flight when it deflated a little. Monkey found it comfortable and liked his legs elevated. He even lay down for a little sleep. 

Do you have other tips for travelling with toddlers on long haul flights? I’d love to hear them…