When you imagine a sprawling countryside hotel steeped in splendour and history, with high beamed rooms and four-poster beds – the epitome of luxury – there isn’t a point where you also envisage the pitter patter of tiny feet and yells from excited children. Fine dining and top-notch spa facilities don’t mix with kids, do they?
Well, that’s not necessarily the case – not as far as Bailiffscourt Hotel & Spa in West Sussex is concerned.
Bailiffscourt Hotel & Spa
When I had my son I pretty much ruled out ever staying somewhere fancy until he was much, much older. But these past few years have taught me otherwise, and Bailiffscourt Hotel & Spa is no exception.
Bailiffscourt Hotel
Set in 30 acres of stunning parkland, you can’t help but be impressed by the grounds as you make your way up the sweeping drive to the main house past the tennis courts, stream and moat house.
Originally owned by Lord and Lady Moyne, who brought the house and the chapel in 1927 – the hotel was named when the chapel was demolished in the 12th Century and rebuilt in the 13th Century, after it had been given to the Abbey of Seez in Normandy after the Norman Conquest, and the Abbess sent over a monk to act as a bailiff to watch over its interests.
A leisurely stroll around the hotel takes you right back in time. Not only can you marvel at the original buildings, so full of character including the Dovecote, Gate House and Granary, but the stunning woodland and its wildlife. We spotted the resident peacock as well as a variety of bird life.
Once we had settled into our room after a warm welcome at reception, we couldn’t wait to explore. The main house is full of hidden nooks and crannies – plenty of comfy sofas and lounges to recline in, with stone staircases and secret tunnels, all leading through to a pretty courtyard – the perfect area to scoff a light lunch or afternoon tea.
Our favourite go-to was the large back garden where you get the most wonderful views of the surrounding countryside, as well as a quaint rose garden by the Thatched House. It was a tranquil spot to enjoy the last of the evening sun and to drink a bottle of delicious Sussex Tinwood sparkling wine.
Climping Sussex
Climping is a small village set in between its rowdier neighbours Littlehampton and Bognor Regis. It’s a tiny hamlet which boasts a few pubs, a farm shop, and best of all… Climping beach – which has wooden groynes and pebbles at high tide. But at low tide, a huge expanse of dark, fine, hard-packed sand is exposed, making it an ideal spot for families and shallow swimming. It’s also popular with kitesurfers and windsurfers. We walked to the beach in five minutes and barely saw a soul. Had it not been for the high winds, we’d have happily spent longer digging the pebbles with the hotel’s bucket and spades – free for all young guests to use.
The Rooms at Bailiffscourt Hotel
There are 39 bedrooms and suites at Bailiffscourt, located in a series of buildings including the Medieval House, The Court and Coach Houses – with their newer rooms at the Moat House and The Oaks, beside the old moat and overlooking the fields. Each room has an en-suite bathroom, hospitality tray, satellite TV, direct-dial phone and hairdryer. For anything else, the hotel is only too happy to help.
We were lucky enough to be staying in the hotel’s signature room, Baylies. It truly was special. Not only was the vaulted ceiling and high beams a sight to behold, but the four-poster bed was huge, the walk-in-wardrobe looked spartan with our meagre belongings; and the two roll-top baths in the bathroom as well as the his-and-her sinks, and walk-in rain shower, felt extravagant. While we went straight towards the Nespresso machine and homemade biscuits, Monkey gravitated towards the board games and the tiny remote that controlled the ‘magic’ TV that rose from the wooden chest at the end of the bed.
Alongside the other flatscreen TV, woodburning stove, classic furnishings and views into the gardens, as well as the soft fluffy towels and robes, and spa quality toiletries, Baylies really was a room we would have happily holed up in on a wet, rainy day. Luckily for us, it happened to be the hottest weekend of the year – and we didn’t get the opportunity to use the DVD player to watch a movie, or order in the 24-hour room service. We all slept magnificently, though.
Amenities at Bailiffscourt Hotel
Don’t let the timeless elegance and old-fashioned facade fool you. As you would expect from a luxury hotel, there is wi-fi throughout the rooms and public areas, and room service. Meanwhile, there are several lounges throughout the hotel to relax in, a fully stocked bar and bar menu, as well as The Tapestry, Bailiffscourt’s fine dining restaurant.
Meanwhile, meetings, private dining and special events such as weddings can be held at the property, where 100 guests can be accommodated.
Bailiffscourt Spa
Bailiffscourt’s spa is the one area which I believe gives the hotel its special edge. With an indoor pool and an outdoor infinity pool, both with jacuzzis, a steam room, sauna and gym, plus several treatment rooms and a relaxation section, the family spent several hours here.
After being taken to the treatment suites and settling myself on the water-bed table (a first for me!), I went for a 50 minute ‘In Good Spirits’ massage, which was just heavenly. A firm, energising massage, it was so relaxing, I actually woke myself up snoring. Embarrassing, I know, but therapist Angela assured me this happens all the time! After feeling totally de-stressed, I then slipped into the outdoor jacuzzi while watching Monkey play in the pool.
We had such glorious sunshine that we were able to order drinks and stay poolside on the sun loungers. It really felt like we were on holiday. The only downside being, because the spa is open to guests and members, there are specifically designated family times, which meant we had to reluctantly leave. But completely understandable.
Bailiffscourt Restaurant and Food
People from all over, not just the hotel guests, come to sample the cuisine at Bailiffscourt’s Tapestry restaurant. Head chef Russell Williams sources local, seasonal ingredients from Sussex which is a great philosophy to adopt – helping local businesses and farms can only be a good thing, while getting to taste the best Britain has to offer.
We’d booked dinner later in the evening, and were asked if we could wait in the lounge with a pre-dinner drink. The maitre d explained the restaurant was extremely busy, but we didn’t mind – we were fine sipping on gin and tonics, and eating home-made hummus.
We were given the menus to choose our meals at this point – and were both overwhelmed with choice. There was a Dinner Menu, Climping Menu, Sussex Menu and Tasting Menu all with several dishes on offer, at different price points. We had to call on the services of the maitre d to help us decide!
Once seated, we realised just how busy service was. We noticed a few disgruntled diners complaining about their meals but this didn’t ruin our enjoyment of our three courses. Hubby’s curried scallops were particularly delicious, whilst my sea bream was fresh, subtle and light.
However, the dining room was stifling hot – I could only imagine how the staff and chefs were coping with the heat – and the service from the waiting staff was a little slow – small details like having to ask for more bread, different faces coming to the table at each juncture and no one pouring our wine or water.
Breakfast the next morning consisted of a plentiful buffet of fruit, pastries, cereals, continental meats and cheeses alongside fresh fruit juices. There is also the option to order a cooked breakfast, too. So while Monkey tucked into boiled egg and soldiers, we went for the smoked salmon and scrambled eggs. We were definitely set up for the day…
The food overall was of a reasonable standard and we had a pleasant dining experience. Having eaten the week previous in a three Michelin starred restaurant for my birthday, it was difficult not to make comparisons. I think if the menus were pared down and there was less choice, perhaps reasonable dishes would be elevated to exceptional dishes, as the kitchen wouldn’t be so overworked. Just a thought… but there was no denying the quality ingredients, which were fresh and tasty.
For Kids
Bailiffscourt is all about peace and relaxation. But it’s also about ‘Buckets of Fun’ – a brilliant way for families and their children to not only enjoy the extensive grounds and properties but to dabble in fun activities at the same time.
As soon as we were greeted by staff, Monkey was pleased to receive a tennis ball and a special ‘bucket list’ which had to be completed in order to receive a signed certificate. We did all manner of things including playing a game of croquet, swinging on a woodland rope, doing handstands on the helipad and seeking out a special underground servant’s tunnel. If, however, you were to ask him what his favourite part of our stay was, he’d categorically tell you it was the several hours we spent splashing around in Bailiffscourt’s two exceptional swimming pools.
He also loved the surprise waiting in our room – a bowl of sweets and popcorn. While we got the fizz, Monkey indulged in confectionery. Win-win all around!
The hotel is very accommodating towards children. There are high chairs, baby cots and babysitting services available, while staff are happy to engage. I was surprised when Monkey was referred to by name when I hadn’t actually mentioned it to anyone.
We were also able to feed him his meal at an earlier time – he had his pick from a wide selection of choices from the children’s menu and happily sat colouring in while waiting for his dinner of sausages and chips to arrive.
At no point did we feel like Monkey’s presence was hampering the relaxation of other guests and it was lovely to see several other families, some with young babies, staying, too.
Verdict
I met several guests who are repeat visitors – which by its own admission suggests that Bailiffscourt is doing something right. The grounds and gardens are stunning – while the spa and its swimming facilities are superb. The hotel really is a breathtaking property which transports you away from the hustle and bustle of city life. Coupled with the glorious weather, it was the perfect setting to relax, unwind and enjoy some family time together.
We certainly did have ‘buckets of fun’ – the activities the hotel concocted, and the close proximity of Climping Beach meant that Monkey was never bored. From the moment we arrived, watching several helicopters taking off from the helipad to hunting down the seaside snakes and ladders, as well as enjoying a pampering session and the wine and fine dining, there was certainly something for each and every one of us.
Bailiffscourt Hotel & Spa certainly proves that you can combine luxury accommodation with children. It was tinged with sadness when we had to pack up the car and leave. In fact, my husband was bereft. He’s now stated that we have to return – and soon. Well, there won’t be any complaints from me or Monkey, that’s for sure…
* We were guests of Bailiffscourt Hotel & Spa on their Buckets of Fun Family Package, which included Dinner, Bed and Breakfast, use of the spa facilities and a bottle of fizz. From £358 for a family of four. As always my opinions are my own.










This sounds fantastic – the hotel and its history sound wonderful, I love staying somewhere with such a story and the room looks amazing. But it’s so rare to find anywhere like this which is family-friendly too. It really seems like they’ve thought of a lot of little details to make it great for kids as well, rather than having one high chair and just about tolerating their existence, which is sometimes the case at the more luxury end.
It is so rare, which is why I think we’d go back again!
Sounds like an incredible place – everything about it seems wonderful. Love the room with all its character but the fact it had a Nespresso machine and all mod-cons!! A bucket list for little ones is also a great idea – they’ve thought of everything.
It’s a great way to get out and about to explore. Monkey adored it.
What a lovely treat to stay at this beautiful place. I really like the way they catered for Monkey, so you all had a great time.
Thanks Carol, it was a special treat that’s for sure. And we were so lucky with sunshine on that weekend 🙂 A rarity in the UK!
This really sounds gorgeous – and wonderful for a special family trip. Love how much thought has gone into making it fun for the kids – and the rooms like great, just my kind of place!
Really luxurious – could have stayed for several more days!
This looks absolutely amazing! Love all of the history and those pools are gorgeous!! Love hotels like this which have the character but are still luxurious…and welcoming to kids!
It’s really hard to find the right combo that’s for sure!
Amazing bedroom! I like it when they do little things like provide free buckets and spades. Nice touches like this cost almost nothing yet the kids love them.
Lovely place perfect for a weekend of pampering for the family! #MondayEscapes
It really was 🙂
I’d enjoy this place too:)
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Omg I loooove the look of this hotel!!!! Will definitely be saving this for the next time we are in England!
It’s pretty special
Oh my gosh look at that bedroom! Heaven! Looks like a fantastic place to stay, very relaxing.
It was gorgeous!
I love that you don’t even have to leave the hotel grounds to enjoy some the gardens and countryside. I’m about to have my very first ‘luxurious’ (as in, not high luxury but nicer than anything I’ve ever booked before) hotel stay next weekend and this post made me look forward to it even more!
Oh I hope you’ve had a lovely time at your luxury break!
Wow what a beautiful hotel and so lovely to know it doesn’t compromise children and family over ultimate relaxation. Sounds like it has the balance of the two just right! #mondayescapes
It definitely did. We were very lucky to have stayed there
Wow! What an awesome bed and bedroom…and TWO baths…amazing! This looks right up our street. It can be hard to find a luxury spa hotel where children are truly welcomed so this is very much welcomes…take me there now! #mondayescapes
The two baths were hilarious. We all had one together with Monkey jumping in between the two. He loved it!
Love the “Buckets of Fun” idea – what a great way to engage kids. Look amazing! Cheers from Copenhagen, Erin
Yes, Monkey had a whale of a time!
How wonderful to find a spa that’s so child friendly, I love the idea of the bucket list and certificate, that’s so original.
Isn’t it just? More hotels should do it!
Great tip, thank you! #MondayEscapes
We stayed at Bailiffscourt when our first child was a baby and really enjoyed the glamour of a country hotel which was welcoming towards families. It’s good to know that there’s even more to do with older children. #MondayEscapes
Oh glad to hear you also love it too Clare.
So nice to know that luxurious escapes are still possible for families. The kids bucket list is a brilliant idea.
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My son really enjoyed the stay too, so that definitely was a bonus!
Just the type of place I look for to get away from Vanilla Hotels. It just looks to have so much character.
Very creaky floor boards and high beams – very English!
We’ve seen the signs for this hotel but never knew it was like THIS!! Woweeeeee! Check out that pool! My Grandparents live on the way – it looks amazing and very plush! Never knew they catered for families, we’ll be checking them out! Thanks for hosting #MondayEscapes
It’s so hidden from the main road – but it’s a beautiful place
Love it! That looks like exactly the place I want to stay. Ambience, croquet, pool all fantastic. Lucky you to have experienced this hotel. Looking into it now
Hope you get to go there one day!
Gorgeous place! Felt like a palace stay to me! I like when this places combine the historical and modern aspects so well. I can see why they have repeated guests.
It’s full of history and so modern all at the same time
What a wonderful setting and scenery. It’s great you were surrounded by so many historic things and you stayed at a place that was good for both adults and kids. The food looks fantastic! I can see why it was hard to leave!
Gosh it really was hard to leave and we had such lovely weather
What a beautiful place! I love ‘The Dude’ shirt 🙂
Thanks 🙂
Oh my gosh that bedroom is amazing and very grand! I’d love to stay somewhere like this. #MondayEscapes
The bedroom was pretty special!
I love when I read that a place so beautiful and peaceful is welcoming to families with young children. When i started travelling with kids, friends told me we ‘absolutely needed’ all kinds of facilities to cater for the kids, but I find pleasant, small touches and an overall welcoming attitude towards children go a long way. i will definitely remember this place when in the area, i think the 4 of us all would really enjoy it.
I really think you would love it too
This hotel looks as close to perfection as they come, and that signature bedroom is insane! So great when you find luxurious accomodarions that are so child-friendly. #mondayescapes
They are definitely a rare find 🙂
I definitely think more hotels are cottoning on to the idea that luxury and families can be a great mix. They are missing a trick if they forget that discerning parents sometimes want to enjoy a stylish, luxurious hotel yet still bring the children.
I love how Bailiffscourt has cleverly mixed the old and new – stunning!
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Thanks Trish, we felt very lucky to experience it. Climping is such a pretty area too
Looks incredible. I thought the chateau hotels of France were amazing, but I think the manors of England might have them beat! I would love to stay there with my family.
It really is as lovely as it looks
Now that looks fabulous! And it looks like your timing was perfect with lovely sunny weather. The spa looks like something I could do with right now, not to mention that inviting pool. And what a bonus that they are child-friendly 🙂 #mondayescapes
It shows you can combine luxury and children – and it’s all good when the sun is shining!
Looks like a really nice place. I love the furnishings in the signature bedroom. Thank bed looks so comfy!b
It was pretty comfy!
Great photos! The food looks amazing! #MondayEscapes
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Wow, I love the 4-poster bed! And the idea of having a bottle of wine during sunset in the gardens sounds heavenly 🙂 Excellent photos, Ting, just the kind of getaway that I would enjoy too. Cheers! #MondayEscapes